Mostly for patterns they can’t think their way out of. People come to me for a mind that won’t shut off at night, stress that sits in the body all day, motivation that keeps stalling no matter how much they want the thing, and relationship triggers that fire before they can catch them. Some are tired of reliving the same bad relationship with a different person, over and over. If it keeps showing up, it’s worth bringing to a Clarity Call.

No. The same patterns that show up with a partner show up everywhere else. I help people with how they relate at work, with family, and with that one aunt or uncle who gets under their skin every Thanksgiving. Most of these patterns are old. They started long before the situation that feels so frustrating now, which is why changing them at the root tends to stick.

It’s 20 minutes on Zoom. We talk about what’s going on, I share how I’d work with it, and any question is fair game. By the end we’ll both know if it’s a good fit, and if it is, we get a session on the calendar.

No. Hypnosis isn’t sleep and it isn’t mind control. People stay aware the whole time, hear everything, and can stop whenever they want. Nothing happens without their agreement.

Sixty minutes, one on one. We start by talking so I get a clear picture of what we’re working through. When the pattern shows up while we’re talking, I’ll pause and point it out, then teach a few simple ways to shift it outside of sessions. Then we use hypnosis to work with it directly. The goal is for clients to stop needing my help. Most people say it feels like being deeply relaxed and focused at the same time.

Most sessions are on Zoom, which works just as well as being in the room. In-person sessions are available in Lancaster, PA by arrangement.

It depends on the person and what we’re working through. A lot of clients notice a difference after the first session, and it takes some repetition to condition it in. Sometimes one session is enough. It depends on how deep the pattern goes. If it makes sense to keep going, we’ll talk about a 3- or 5-session package.

No sexual activity, ever. Sessions are conversation and hypnosis, and everyone stays fully clothed. For in-person sessions, consensual, light, non-sexual touch on a wrist, shoulder or elbow may be helpful.

No. We talk about what feels right to talk about, and nothing gets forced. Hypnosis doesn’t depend on talking things through. Some sessions are content-free, so there’s no need to tell me what we’re working through for me to guide a real change in emotion and body response. We trust the answers the subconscious gives. What’s connected to the issue can be surprising. Plenty of people come in for intimacy or relationship stuff that has nothing to do with the bedroom, and we can work through whatever’s tied to it.

Both and more. I work with individuals, with couples, and with open relationship dynamics. Once I’ve had sessions with everyone involved separately, we can talk about a group trance. It’s more of an internal process than what happens in couples counseling. When partners drop into trance together, it’s more about deepening the connection than any sort of change work. It’s still $250 for the room, or one package session, whether it’s two people or a group of consenting adults.

Yes. What’s shared in sessions stays between us, except in rare cases like a legal requirement or a serious risk of harm. Sessions are never recorded unless we both agree to it first.

No. This is non-clinical coaching and hypnosis. I don’t diagnose or treat any medical or mental health condition. A lot of my clients work with me alongside a therapist or coach, and the two fit together really well. A therapist or coach can help find the limiting beliefs, patterns and relationship triggers. Then we work through them in trance.